Well the question was present tense, so the answer is..no one.
I march to the beat of my own drummer--that's not a boast, just the truth.
But past tense, my dad.
Why? I saw him as incredibly bright, funny, caring. I idolized him.
Now I'm a grown up, I still think he's pretty cool, but I see him as a human being, through adult eyes. I see his frailties. On the one hand it makes wanting to be like him more attainable, but on the other, I see defects (like his unwillingness to forgive) that I don't wish to emulate.
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