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hi there.... i poked my nose in the thread and ended up reading through the whole thing. brings back a lot of memories for me when i was younger.
i was in the position of your younger son, Double D, years ago. my parents had pretty much the same kind of problems with my older brother, that you're having with your older son. my parents tried there best to help him straighten up, but ended up going the same route that you have with the "tough love" kinda stance. after reading through all this, i believe you're doing the right thing and have handled it very well. after being involved in this situation myself, i understand what you're going through. just stay strong and things will turn out for the best, i'm sure.
turns out, years later, my older brother and my parents have become close and have a very good relationship, and my brother has turned out just fine. and believe me, he was VERY messed up. hope everything goes well for you and your family.
best wishes
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