So long as she knows that she's special, she shouldn't have cause to worry. Not that she won't worry, but she should get over it in the end.
I'm involved with two women right now. It's an open, polyamorous situation with complete disclosure. The last one to join (making it a poly relationship) wasn't bothered by the fact that she wasn't my only love (even right now) so long as she knew that she wasn't just a lay to me. Because I'd treated her with love and respect up to the point, there was no problem with her believing it, either.
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