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Splice · 08-26-2003, 09:02 PM

AL9045:
Unlike what most have done, either saying to fight or not to fight. I'm gonna ask what YOU did to get into this situation. See, it takes more than 1 person to fight. Here's HOw you got yourself in this situation. Please know that this is to help you avoid this petty situation. That is fighting leads to worse things, like getting kicked out of school, getting your ass thrown in jail, etc.

Me and my friend are just talking, and I say something funny, and my friend starts cracking up, the guy walks past us, and is like, "What's so funny?" and proceeds to punch my friend in the shoulder, and then he goes "Don't talk about me." Me and my friend start yelling at him and saying he doesn't know what the fuck he's talking about, but he sticks to his guns...

See, here, you were talking and minding your own business UNTIL this guy starts yapping. BUT, instead of letting it go, you and your friends told him that he didn't know "what the fuck he's talking about." Ok, so this is your first step into this confrontation.

Next thing, we see him in the next class and he starts talking about how rich he is and shit, and then the next thing I know he's asking me for a piece of paper, so I just go, "If you're so rich, then why can't you afford a pack of paper?" He thinks I mean this personally and he goes "I used to be poor, but my family is rich now." I just tell him to fuck off.

Again, instead of either ignoring him or responding in a civilized manner, you chose to instigate and once again told him to "fuck off." This is the second step towards a confrontation which can be avoided but instead you CHOSE to antagonize him and edge him on.

The next day I see him again, and this time he's running his mouth pretending to know everything about the world, etc, etc...So then I go, "You don't know what you're talking about, please stop talking." He goes, "You know I can kick your ass." I agree, by saying, "What's your point?" And this goes on for awhile, and finally go, "I'll find you and kill you." Again he thinks I'm going to kill him in school or in public or whatever, so he goes "What about my family?"

Here, for the THIRD time, you got into a verbal confrontation by CHOICE. Then lastly, you THREATENED "I'll find you and kill you." DUDE wake the hell up, you started this whole pile of shit and you're blaming the other guy for being a dick?

For some reason, after that, he stopped being an ass, but he still thinks he knows what he's talking about, I have never gotten into a fight or anything like that, but I think this kid needs to learn a lesson before he starts running his mouth.

So as far as I can tell this other guy's problem is that he's a "smart-ass" and THAT is what's bothering you. He hasn't done anything to you. Actually it's the opposite. YOu told him to "fuck off" TWICE. then on the third time, you threatened to "kill" him.

I'm not trying to give you a hard time. But if you SLOW down long enough and break YOUR OWN ACTIONS down, then you'll see that somewhere along the way you DECIDED to start things.

The responses from some of the other fellow TFPer's have been in situations where your life was in danger or someone just wanted to kick your ass for no reason.

AL9045, I'm trying to get you to see that we all make choices and many of the times, we choose to get into these situations.

08-26-2003, 09:02 PM	#36 (permalink)
Splice Crazy	AL9045: Unlike what most have done, either saying to fight or not to fight. I'm gonna ask what YOU did to get into this situation. See, it takes more than 1 person to fight. Here's HOw you got yourself in this situation. Please know that this is to help you avoid this petty situation. That is fighting leads to worse things, like getting kicked out of school, getting your ass thrown in jail, etc. Me and my friend are just talking, and I say something funny, and my friend starts cracking up, the guy walks past us, and is like, "What's so funny?" and proceeds to punch my friend in the shoulder, and then he goes "Don't talk about me." Me and my friend start yelling at him and saying he doesn't know what the fuck he's talking about, but he sticks to his guns... See, here, you were talking and minding your own business UNTIL this guy starts yapping. BUT, instead of letting it go, you and your friends told him that he didn't know "what the fuck he's talking about." Ok, so this is your first step into this confrontation. Next thing, we see him in the next class and he starts talking about how rich he is and shit, and then the next thing I know he's asking me for a piece of paper, so I just go, "If you're so rich, then why can't you afford a pack of paper?" He thinks I mean this personally and he goes "I used to be poor, but my family is rich now." I just tell him to fuck off. Again, instead of either ignoring him or responding in a civilized manner, you chose to instigate and once again told him to "fuck off." This is the second step towards a confrontation which can be avoided but instead you CHOSE to antagonize him and edge him on. The next day I see him again, and this time he's running his mouth pretending to know everything about the world, etc, etc...So then I go, "You don't know what you're talking about, please stop talking." He goes, "You know I can kick your ass." I agree, by saying, "What's your point?" And this goes on for awhile, and finally go, "I'll find you and kill you." Again he thinks I'm going to kill him in school or in public or whatever, so he goes "What about my family?" Here, for the THIRD time, you got into a verbal confrontation by CHOICE. Then lastly, you THREATENED "I'll find you and kill you." DUDE wake the hell up, you started this whole pile of shit and you're blaming the other guy for being a dick? For some reason, after that, he stopped being an ass, but he still thinks he knows what he's talking about, I have never gotten into a fight or anything like that, but I think this kid needs to learn a lesson before he starts running his mouth. So as far as I can tell this other guy's problem is that he's a "smart-ass" and THAT is what's bothering you. He hasn't done anything to you. Actually it's the opposite. YOu told him to "fuck off" TWICE. then on the third time, you threatened to "kill" him. I'm not trying to give you a hard time. But if you SLOW down long enough and break YOUR OWN ACTIONS down, then you'll see that somewhere along the way you DECIDED to start things. The responses from some of the other fellow TFPer's have been in situations where your life was in danger or someone just wanted to kick your ass for no reason. AL9045, I'm trying to get you to see that we all make choices and many of the times, we choose to get into these situations.