yeah, Last year someone in my Social Psych class had the same fear.  we were about to watch a movie, and so he turned the lights off.  She freaked and run out of the room into the hallway.  It was funny at first, until I (we) realized that everyone has a different fear, and the dark isn't to be reserved for kids.
I'm thinking tho that your b/f  did that just so he could come to your aid while you were in the shower 


(just tryin' for a grin 

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