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Originally posted by Kadath
I offer the thoughts of Mr. Gone: "Of course I've got a problem with women! Every man has a problem with women, because they taunt and tease, because they are attractive and they punish you for being attracted."
Of course, Mr. Gone is a psychopath...so maybe that isn't the best model.
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I love Mr. Gone.
Uh, there are things you can do to make yourself feel less open to rejection. One is to tell lots of jokes. If yer being goofy a lot of the time, then it's okay for them to laugh. You WANT them to laugh. Second is to find a way that you feel like you have some control over things. Say to yourself: "I am only going to go home with the hottest woman I talk to tonight." or even "I'm not going to go home with ANYONE tonight; they'll have to settle for my phone number." Something that makes you feel a bit superior.
Third: don't care! Be just a little snobby. They often mistake that for "confidence".