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Originally posted by obricko
First off try asking them questions about them. You say less and they talk more, which they love to do anyway. Not to mention asking a person questions about them shows intrest and builds.
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That is absolutely perfect advice. One thing that is always guaranteed in any conversation is that people love to talk about themselves and their interests. And why not? It's always easiest to talk about what we know. You can always expand on something they say, asking them their thoughts and feelings on a personal experience/book/movie.
Don't start off by looking for a girlfriend. Look for a girl friend. You can't enter any relationship expecting that this is the person you will marry. If it works out that way, then great, but in the meantime, just try to relax and have fun. Remember, it doesn't affect world hunger.