Accept the fact that you are going to make a complete idiot of yourself when you are around girls. Get yourself to the point where you are OK with looking like a fool, because, after all, one time in ten, you might not look foolish. If they laugh, so what.
If you *don't* make a fool of yourself, hey, that's great. It's gravy.
Once you have accepted that, and are prepared to get thoroughly laughed at, guess what? You have nothing to be afraid of. You will be brave, courageous and strong because you are already expecting the worst case scenario and you just don't care.
That will make you successful in talking to women. We like it when men are confident and strong. We have no idea what that strength and confidence is based on and you don't have to tell us.
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