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analog · 08-24-2003, 04:35 PM

1. Make moves of your own. Many of the truly decent guys out there are too shy or (because they're decent guys) aren't forward enough to engage a girl in conversation, especially since there are many girls who will shoot a man down with no respect, thus leaving him even MORE unwilling to try again. Once the approach has been made, most guys will see that as a great gesture, and will be a lot more forward themselves.

2. You don't need make-up as <b>often</b> as you think you do, as <b>much</b> as you think you do, and when you wake up in the morning next to us, don't feel awkward because you're not wearing any. If a guy is going to love you and want to be with you "forever", he's looking for the NATURAL you. Not the "club" or "bar" you he sees under all the make-up and push-up bras and styled hair.

3. Long hair is long for a reason. Leave it down. I've yet to see ANY girl who looks better with her long hair tied up.

4. It's important to make sure the guy knows what you want, and that you like what he's doing. Guys can only be so assertive in today's world of harrassment charges, and many are scared to go too fast- and many of you girls won't tell a guy how he's doing, or even to keep going if he starts stalling. Most guys stall out because they aren't getting enough (or sometimes ANY) input as to whether you like what they're doing.

5. Don't "feel" guys out for their likes. If you like to drink, make it known. If the guy doesn't, you either get over it or move on to another guy. Don't try to find out what will impress them and then do that, because you usually won't score anything long-term if you only show a guy what he wants to see- eventually the reality will set in and he will be disenchanted by the mistruths.

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In reponse to your evening of cops and robbers: If you had sex, and he doesn't call you the next day, give him one more, then on day 3 call him and ask what he's up to, how he's doing, etc. Don't ask why he hasn't called, and the reason is this- if he's a decent guy, he'll feel bad for not having called, some people are busy and forget if they have enough else on their minds.

If you didn't have sex, call him the day after. He might be looking to see if you're interested enough for more, seeing as you were there until 5:30 and didn't have sex.

08-24-2003, 04:35 PM	#27 (permalink)
analog Banned	1. Make moves of your own. Many of the truly decent guys out there are too shy or (because they're decent guys) aren't forward enough to engage a girl in conversation, especially since there are many girls who will shoot a man down with no respect, thus leaving him even MORE unwilling to try again. Once the approach has been made, most guys will see that as a great gesture, and will be a lot more forward themselves. 2. You don't need make-up as <b>often</b> as you think you do, as <b>much</b> as you think you do, and when you wake up in the morning next to us, don't feel awkward because you're not wearing any. If a guy is going to love you and want to be with you "forever", he's looking for the NATURAL you. Not the "club" or "bar" you he sees under all the make-up and push-up bras and styled hair. 3. Long hair is long for a reason. Leave it down. I've yet to see ANY girl who looks better with her long hair tied up. 4. It's important to make sure the guy knows what you want, and that you like what he's doing. Guys can only be so assertive in today's world of harrassment charges, and many are scared to go too fast- and many of you girls won't tell a guy how he's doing, or even to keep going if he starts stalling. Most guys stall out because they aren't getting enough (or sometimes ANY) input as to whether you like what they're doing. 5. Don't "feel" guys out for their likes. If you like to drink, make it known. If the guy doesn't, you either get over it or move on to another guy. Don't try to find out what will impress them and then do that, because you usually won't score anything long-term if you only show a guy what he wants to see- eventually the reality will set in and he will be disenchanted by the mistruths. ****************** In reponse to your evening of cops and robbers: If you had sex, and he doesn't call you the next day, give him one more, then on day 3 call him and ask what he's up to, how he's doing, etc. Don't ask why he hasn't called, and the reason is this- if he's a decent guy, he'll feel bad for not having called, some people are busy and forget if they have enough else on their minds. If you didn't have sex, call him the day after. He might be looking to see if you're interested enough for more, seeing as you were there until 5:30 and didn't have sex.