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Speaking as a woman, we ask because we want to be number 1 in our "guy's book." That doesn't mean we want to be first -- just "the best." My bf told me his "magic number;" and to tell the truth I can't remember it. That is because he is good at building me up and helping me feel sexy and desirable. The other woman (some of whom I've met) do not matter to me! I know I'm his only one right now, that I turn him on, that he REALLY satisfies me, and that is all I need. Give your gf time and lots of feedback (about her -- don't compare her to others) -- this will all be behind you soon.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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