um...even though I'm a flirt...I'm terrible at asking out ladies.
I'd say the most ladies I've gone with have asked me out,
or have just made it very obvious to me that they are interested.
And subtle actions and words go right over my head,
or if they are ambiguous, I won't act on them, because I don't know if they are just being friendly or not.
* I'd say be very obvious about it.
* Try asking out a guy
* Just consider exchanging phone numbers at least
* Be friendly, a nice smile does wonders
* Be interested in me and what I do, and in turn I'll be interested in you & your life
* It doesn't really matter what you wear, but have a certain confidence with your body, an open one
If you're sending signals that say, "don't bother me", then you won't be approached. Send signals like "I'm good, and I know it"
* And don't just go for the uber-cute guys, they are used to ladies fawning over them, and tend to take girls for granted.
Hope to see you all out on the singles scene.
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