Well, I don't know if my advice will help. But it takes TWO to be in a relationship and it is constant work. I would flat out ask him if he wants to be in this relationship and you wanting some romance is not being spoiled. It's not asking too much of someone either, especially if you did it before. Now, if you two haven't ever done that and you are comparing him to your "lost" love, then no, that's not gonna change him or make things work for you two. You have to let go of the past, then, if this is the way he is--either accept it and risk not being happy or let him go.
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