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when i was dating my wife, she had posed the question to me as well. I had ducked it for a few months, knowing that it may affect our relationship (and also because since we have the same circle of friends, she was bound to know some of them)
Anyway, to make a long story short, I finally gave in and gave some numbers - which led to questions about who I did what with. Well, needless to say, it was slightly uncomfortable when we would run into some of my ex's after she knew who they were.
So, the moral is that although I did not mind coming clean, it made my life very difficult for a while when we met someone from my past.
You cannot win.
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