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OK, may I offer a few serious suggestions?
Try to "rise above it".
Learn her monthly cycle and know when it is PMS time and when it is her being upset for some other reason.
When it is PMS, no matter now angry or personal she gets, pretend like she is yelling at some really ugly picture pasted to your forehead that looks nothing like you. That is a good way of not taking it personally but if you have some other way, go with it.
Do not pay attention to the *content* of what she is saying. No matter how much it sounds like she is compaining about something specific, she isn't.
Do not react to the content. Pretend she is yelling in a foreign language that you do not understand. React only to the emotion.
*If* you can be a rock and withstand any hurricane she throws at you, she will really love you for it and might just admit it.
Bonus points: when she yells at you, hug her and tell you that you love her. It will throw her off stride at first but she will probably like it. It might even cause her to forget what she was yelling about.
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