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Cynthetiq · 08-22-2003, 07:37 PM

another thing... register all over the place... even if you don't tell anyone about it. Why? because most places give the newlywed a discount on anything on their list. Places like Target have registries also.... try them all. It's free... just takes some time and usually you get to run through the store with a laser gun

from WeddingChannel.com

Most newly engaged men hear the word registry and think the process will be as much fun as watching "Oprah." Bakeware, barware, cookware, flatware, stemware -- it all can wear a guy out. We visited a well-known department store to discover what usually happens when engaged couples register. A veteran clerk filled us in. "There is a definite pattern. The woman points at things she wants, and the man follows close behind, nodding his head, agreeing to everything. The man might pick out one item, like a chrome blender." Do yourself a favor and take an active role in the registry process. Friends might drop hundreds of dollars on you because of tradition.

This tradition will provide you with myriad gifts if you take advantage of online registering. (See Registry on this site). It is less time consuming than ever to get involved in the process. Friends and family can now go online to see what you have listed, and their purchasing power is easily activated with a point and click of the mouse. Gifts from multiple sources can all be found on your unique registry page.

Below is a list of more than 40 items that any couple should have... or any guy should have... OK, so this list is full of items I want. But, hey, I'm a guy. I should know what other guys want. One hint -- don't include any items that require detailed purchasing decisions unless you provide exact specifications to alleviate any post purchase headaches.

Barware
Drinker or abstainer, every guy needs a serviceable bar. A chrome blender is especially hot item.

Blender
Brandy glasses
Highball glasses
Ice bucket and tongs
Martini shakers
Pilsner glasses
Wine opener
Wine rack and holder
Stemware
Get creative and find stemware with style. Beer mugs from your alma mater are oh-so-bachelor.

Champagne flutes
Iced beverage glasses
Martini glasses
Water goblets
Wine glasses (red and white)
Cookware
If you are already handy in the kitchen, you'll know the pots, pans, and accessories you want. If your best skill in the kitchen is warming things in the micro, it is not too late to add a few meals to your repertoire. A romantic breakfast in bed always puts her in a good mood. George Foreman's Lean Mean Fat Grilling Machines are flying off the shelves.

Coffee and tea maker (espresso and cappuccino maker)
Cookie sheets
Grill/griddle
Juicer
Microwave
Omelet pan
Pizza pan
Rice cooker/veggie steamer
Skillet
Toaster/toaster oven
Waffle iron
Luggage
Traveling with substandard luggage can cause more headaches than an obese, under showered snorer in the airplane seat next to you. Be sure, especially, to be equipped with a durable carry-on bag and garment bag. They will save you time at check-in and baggage claim. More importantly, you won't have to worry about the airline losing the small stuffed animal your fiancée gave you.

Carry-on bag
Duffel bag
Garment bag
Suitcase
For more on the subject, read our article, All About Luggage.

Kitchenware
Nothing beats a sharp knife except a set of sharp knives. And always have a chip and dip set ready for when the guys are over for the big game.

Bread knife
Can opener
Carving knife
Chef knife
Chip and Dip Set
Cleaver knife
Electric knife (especially for the Thanksgiving turkey)
Slicing knife
Set of Steak knives
The "He's Gotta Have It" Bonus Section
Creating a registry at a store like Macy's will bring you all the great gifts I've just mentioned. But here are some ideas you may not have thought of; items not necessarily carried in a department store.

How about a home computer? It is the single most important item on the list to keep you connected to the outside world. Why not pamper yourself with a massager? Today's effective models are available as both cordless, handheld units and full-body mats. Music and movies are a must -- gift certificates for both will come in handy. If you're thinking of high-end electronics, you could put a DVD player, speakers, or a VCR on the list. Season tickets to your favorite sports team, theater, or museum will give you a full year of enjoyment. If you don't have a full set of tools, request one, including a Swiss Army knife. You'll be fixing and assembling things for years to come (make sure you have a nice set of fireplace tools also). Even if you are fortunate enough to have a gardener, yard work can be fun and a much-needed escape, especially if you have the right basic tools. After digging in the garden, you'll want to stand with a beer in your hand as fish sizzles on the grill. That is the life, but you need the grill and the necessary accessories. A wedding is no excuse to put on a quick ten pounds. Ask for some basic home fitness equipment such as dumb bells, a treadmill, ab roller, etc. Then all you need is the proper motivation to work out. Unfortunately, you can't put that on this list. If your fiancée does a similar work out, or plays golf or mountain bikes, request one for each of you. Working out together is a great way to spend down time and discuss the day's events. Though some friends and relatives might take a year to send you the gift, if you include some items from the above list, it'll be well worth the wait. Happy Registering!

08-22-2003, 07:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
Cynthetiq Tilted Cat Head Administrator Location: Manhattan, NY	another thing... register all over the place... even if you don't tell anyone about it. Why? because most places give the newlywed a discount on anything on their list. Places like Target have registries also.... try them all. It's free... just takes some time and usually you get to run through the store with a laser gun from WeddingChannel.com Most newly engaged men hear the word registry and think the process will be as much fun as watching "Oprah." Bakeware, barware, cookware, flatware, stemware -- it all can wear a guy out. We visited a well-known department store to discover what usually happens when engaged couples register. A veteran clerk filled us in. "There is a definite pattern. The woman points at things she wants, and the man follows close behind, nodding his head, agreeing to everything. The man might pick out one item, like a chrome blender." Do yourself a favor and take an active role in the registry process. Friends might drop hundreds of dollars on you because of tradition. This tradition will provide you with myriad gifts if you take advantage of online registering. (See Registry on this site). It is less time consuming than ever to get involved in the process. Friends and family can now go online to see what you have listed, and their purchasing power is easily activated with a point and click of the mouse. Gifts from multiple sources can all be found on your unique registry page. Below is a list of more than 40 items that any couple should have... or any guy should have... OK, so this list is full of items I want. But, hey, I'm a guy. I should know what other guys want. One hint -- don't include any items that require detailed purchasing decisions unless you provide exact specifications to alleviate any post purchase headaches. Barware Drinker or abstainer, every guy needs a serviceable bar. A chrome blender is especially hot item. Blender Brandy glasses Highball glasses Ice bucket and tongs Martini shakers Pilsner glasses Wine opener Wine rack and holder Stemware Get creative and find stemware with style. Beer mugs from your alma mater are oh-so-bachelor. Champagne flutes Iced beverage glasses Martini glasses Water goblets Wine glasses (red and white) Cookware If you are already handy in the kitchen, you'll know the pots, pans, and accessories you want. If your best skill in the kitchen is warming things in the micro, it is not too late to add a few meals to your repertoire. A romantic breakfast in bed always puts her in a good mood. George Foreman's Lean Mean Fat Grilling Machines are flying off the shelves. Coffee and tea maker (espresso and cappuccino maker) Cookie sheets Grill/griddle Juicer Microwave Omelet pan Pizza pan Rice cooker/veggie steamer Skillet Toaster/toaster oven Waffle iron Luggage Traveling with substandard luggage can cause more headaches than an obese, under showered snorer in the airplane seat next to you. Be sure, especially, to be equipped with a durable carry-on bag and garment bag. They will save you time at check-in and baggage claim. More importantly, you won't have to worry about the airline losing the small stuffed animal your fiancée gave you. Carry-on bag Duffel bag Garment bag Suitcase For more on the subject, read our article, All About Luggage. Kitchenware Nothing beats a sharp knife except a set of sharp knives. And always have a chip and dip set ready for when the guys are over for the big game. Bread knife Can opener Carving knife Chef knife Chip and Dip Set Cleaver knife Electric knife (especially for the Thanksgiving turkey) Slicing knife Set of Steak knives The "He's Gotta Have It" Bonus Section Creating a registry at a store like Macy's will bring you all the great gifts I've just mentioned. But here are some ideas you may not have thought of; items not necessarily carried in a department store. How about a home computer? It is the single most important item on the list to keep you connected to the outside world. Why not pamper yourself with a massager? Today's effective models are available as both cordless, handheld units and full-body mats. Music and movies are a must -- gift certificates for both will come in handy. If you're thinking of high-end electronics, you could put a DVD player, speakers, or a VCR on the list. Season tickets to your favorite sports team, theater, or museum will give you a full year of enjoyment. If you don't have a full set of tools, request one, including a Swiss Army knife. You'll be fixing and assembling things for years to come (make sure you have a nice set of fireplace tools also). Even if you are fortunate enough to have a gardener, yard work can be fun and a much-needed escape, especially if you have the right basic tools. After digging in the garden, you'll want to stand with a beer in your hand as fish sizzles on the grill. That is the life, but you need the grill and the necessary accessories. A wedding is no excuse to put on a quick ten pounds. Ask for some basic home fitness equipment such as dumb bells, a treadmill, ab roller, etc. Then all you need is the proper motivation to work out. Unfortunately, you can't put that on this list. If your fiancée does a similar work out, or plays golf or mountain bikes, request one for each of you. Working out together is a great way to spend down time and discuss the day's events. Though some friends and relatives might take a year to send you the gift, if you include some items from the above list, it'll be well worth the wait. Happy Registering! __________________ I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not. What's the best nation in the world? DO-NATION! Last edited by Cynthetiq; 08-22-2003 at 07:47 PM..