If there is one thing I have realized in the course of my lifetime, it is that there is nothing worth doing if it is not going to be done well. Sex falls into that category. Patience, attention, affection, encouragement, compromise- these elements are significant in building a rapport with your woman. Don't get me wrong- quickies have their virtues, but there is nothing wrong with taking your time on a romp and enjoying the nuances in the getting to the climax. In the long run, your woman will be more inclined to relax and expand her sexual repetoire if you slow down and learn to enjoy stimulating her more and you will find much gratification in helping her finish. I decided a long time ago that the female body is too beautiful to hurry with. I decided to direct my attentions to mastering that unique instrument and in the process I learned that delaying gratification has its own rewards.
Your woman knows if you are there for sex or there for a "nut".
She'll respond accordingly. Likewise, if she is there only for a nut, either slow her down or join her in that. But each episode of interaction is yours, too.
Be patient. Enjoy!
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