bobart....we ladies know that the men read the threads in the ladies lounge...that's fine. But, it's our only place to just hang with the girls and have only female input and views. We quite often ask questions or post ideas/comments where we want comments and opinions from both men and women but we do this in other forums where both sexes are welcome to comment. (ie. general forum/members/or sexuality/living)
Do we sit in the ladies lounge and bash men...nope. But, there are some topics or scenarios where we only want women's input. We aren't trying to be secretive or nasty or catty....but it is certainly nice to have our own little spot in a very male-oriented site to be able to talk about things that we don't necessarily want male input.
Hope no-one takes offence to that...and none should be taken.