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Maybe she doesn't want to feel used like a sex object. Or she might have a lower sex drive than you do. The more demanding and insistent you are about this, the more you're pushing her away and giving her the impression that having sex with her is all she means to you. Sounds to me like she still wants to be with you, since she's willing to please you, but she's hesitant about staying with you if the most important thing about her is the sex, not the person as a whole. Sex is not the only way to be intimate. Perhaps you should try spending more time with her on activities other than sex if she really means that much to you. Girls don't often like being so straightforward about telling you things that you should know (for the sake of being polite), so you have to read the meta-messages based on what she is telling you. If she gets the feeling that her all-emcompassing self means nothing to you, then she's going to try to sever the relationship until she can be sure that that's not the case. Reassure her by treating her like a good friend instead of a fuck buddy.
Just a bit of girl psychology for you, from a person who's been in her shoes too.
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