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Originally posted by clockworkgreen
It helps if you don't call it "the pooper".
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Yeah, that's number one.
2: PLENTY of lube. If anything feels dry, use some more. Make sure you use K-Y or something that SPECIFICALLY STATES ON THE PACKAGING that it's safe for use with condoms. This is important because the wrong kind will cause the latex to actually erode and cancel it's effectiveness.
3: One finger is your friend. Use it for a while. A WHILE. After a while or one finger, try adding a second along with it. Do this FOR A WHILE. You're basically giving the anus sufficiently slow stretching so that when you add a penis, it's A.) more supple (stretchy) and B.) already stretched out a bit.
If she winces, you're probably OK. If she makes noises, you MIGHT be OK. If she says wait, she's still too tight.
<b>Take your time with it, or you'll never do it again for a loooooooong time.</b>
Personal experience.
Oh, and make sure if you plan on cumming inside her ass (if you're not wearing a condom) you ASK first. Nothing says turn-off like an ass-full of unwanted cum. Perhaps you can save that for the second time around, after the initial shock of the act itself has gone away?