ouch! sounds like just got a wee bit out of hand. But, there really is something to say about enthusiasm in a blowjob. A woman can have incredible technique but if I know she's 'not into it' it doesn't do nearly as much for me. I've been with girls who had poor to average skill but really loved what they were doing and it made an incredible difference to me.
I too have had a sore frenulum but that's because she wanted me to give her oral 7 times in one day. oof... hehe
