lurkette... i absolutely ADORE you for this post... *soft smile*... and it couldn't have come at a better time.
you are right when you said that little voice inside your head is NOT A FRIEND...
*deep breath*... okay... here goes nothing...
1.  i am silly
2.  i am fun
3.  i am a strong woman (as my sister's and i like to say, "i've got Moxie!"  

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4.  people often tell me i have beautiful eyes
5.  i am fiercely loyal
6.  i am a good mom
7.  i am a good wife (i think, i hope, Willow tells me so)
8.  i can be very creative
9.  i am very compassionate
10.  i still find wonder in most everything i see
that was harder than i thought... but well worth the effort.
thanks again lurkette
(((((((((((((((((((( hug ))))))))))))))))))))))))))