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Averett · 08-19-2003, 06:51 AM

My college boyfriend broke up with me the day I got out of the hospital

Story:

I met him my senior year, he was a freshman (although only a year younger than I was..) We got along great, I loved him, he was my first blah blah blah. Anyway, I graduate and it's time for me to go back home to NY (college was in VA). I bring up us breaking up. I loved him, but I knew deep down that the distance would kill it. He says no, we can work it out. So we stay together. Talk on the phone a few times a week, things are okay.

In November he started telling me about this girl he met online who's from the next town over. High school girl, 17.. He's 21. He always had a lot of girl friends, so I wasn't worried. Well, I should have been. He ended up telling her that we broke up in October when I visited him for homecoming. Well, we did break up, because I wanted to, but he asked me back. And I stupidly got back with him.

Anyway, I buy him plane tickets to visit me for New Years. He fucks this girl the week before he comes to see me. He gets here, we go out the night he gets in and he's driving home from the bar. Had one beer. Feel asleep at the wheel. We crash into a little retaining wall. I break my arm, leg, big cut above my left eye. I'm in the hospital for 5 days. Spend New Years in the hospital. The bastard doesnt even give me flowers or anything.

Each day he visited me in the hospital, he would disappear for 15 minutes or so. I found out later that he was calling the other girl. So I have surgery, and I'm released from the hospital. Im getting ready to go to sleep that night and he says to me "I think we should break up." I was shocked. I just sat there and said "Okay." I had to sit there and pretend everything was okay for 4 more days until he flew back home.

I found out about 2 months later that he slept with another girl the week before I visited him in October, and that he was "dating" the 17 year old while we were still together.

Even after I talked to this girl (she had no idea about me), she still stayed with him. Well, karma bit both of them in the ass when he got her pregnant. I found this out when I was visiting for homecoming the following year and saw him. He asked how my family was, and I told him about my sister having a baby. He says "Oh, Susanne (I think thats her name..) had an abortion a few months ago." What the hell do I say to that?

Long story, sorry... Anyway, this was 2 1/2 years ago and I hope karma is still kicking him in the ass.

08-19-2003, 06:51 AM	#38 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	My college boyfriend broke up with me the day I got out of the hospital Story: I met him my senior year, he was a freshman (although only a year younger than I was..) We got along great, I loved him, he was my first blah blah blah. Anyway, I graduate and it's time for me to go back home to NY (college was in VA). I bring up us breaking up. I loved him, but I knew deep down that the distance would kill it. He says no, we can work it out. So we stay together. Talk on the phone a few times a week, things are okay. In November he started telling me about this girl he met online who's from the next town over. High school girl, 17.. He's 21. He always had a lot of girl friends, so I wasn't worried. Well, I should have been. He ended up telling her that we broke up in October when I visited him for homecoming. Well, we did break up, because I wanted to, but he asked me back. And I stupidly got back with him. Anyway, I buy him plane tickets to visit me for New Years. He fucks this girl the week before he comes to see me. He gets here, we go out the night he gets in and he's driving home from the bar. Had one beer. Feel asleep at the wheel. We crash into a little retaining wall. I break my arm, leg, big cut above my left eye. I'm in the hospital for 5 days. Spend New Years in the hospital. The bastard doesnt even give me flowers or anything. Each day he visited me in the hospital, he would disappear for 15 minutes or so. I found out later that he was calling the other girl. So I have surgery, and I'm released from the hospital. Im getting ready to go to sleep that night and he says to me "I think we should break up." I was shocked. I just sat there and said "Okay." I had to sit there and pretend everything was okay for 4 more days until he flew back home. I found out about 2 months later that he slept with another girl the week before I visited him in October, and that he was "dating" the 17 year old while we were still together. Even after I talked to this girl (she had no idea about me), she still stayed with him. Well, karma bit both of them in the ass when he got her pregnant. I found this out when I was visiting for homecoming the following year and saw him. He asked how my family was, and I told him about my sister having a baby. He says "Oh, Susanne (I think thats her name..) had an abortion a few months ago." What the hell do I say to that? Long story, sorry... Anyway, this was 2 1/2 years ago and I hope karma is still kicking him in the ass. __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.