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It is definitely all in your mind, probably just an anxiety thing. Relax, take things slow. Also, dont' jump out of your clothes and into the condom. Take your time undressing and fooling around naked. Give yourself time to get used to being naked around your girlfriend. Also, maybe have her put the condom on.
I have several friends who have had similar problems, and in every case it turned out to be mental. One of my friends has a similar problem the first time he tries to sleep with a new girl. Apparently, after the first time, he doesn't have any problems.
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