Okay, for all the whiners out there read this: You keep saying girls don't like a nice guy. Bullshit. What you are doing is not 'being a nice guy'. By putting a woman on a pedestal, by doing everything for her, by making such a production of everything, you are, in fact, belittling her. Relationships are a two way street. Giving is good. Loving her is good. But if you smother her with all of this, you are not allowing her to do her half of the work. The relationship has become lopsided, and she will leave you out of desperation.
Do yourself a favor. Do her a favor. Treat her like a person. An equal. Share everything. I'm not talking about playing games. You just need to relax and let things happen.
There’s also another answer to this.... Stay in your league. You need to follow your own advice. Don't go for the 'hot, empty headed' chick. Try asking out the nice, plain girl that is a lot more like you. Being obsessed by looks, on either side is not going to get you anywhere. Physical attraction is important, but it only lasts so long.
Okay, lecture is over.
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