I have never dated a guy based on looks. And I mean NEVER. And I will tell you this: the "not-so-hot" looking guys can be bastards and jackasses just as well as the "hotties" can. It's not just becaue they have looks that makes them that way.
A nice guy is a nice guy. And the reason most women don't fall for nice guys is because most women have self-esteem issues that keep them from believing they deserve a nice guy. (I said MOST, not ALL). From years of watching how women are treated as the butt of jokes, degraded and kept down in their jobs, what else would you expect us to do with our relationships?
But the nice guys can win, regardless of looks, if they know how to play the game (like someone else above me had said). It is a game, and the trick is to know how to win... just ask redravin40... he won
