IMO this dating thing is nothing but a huge game. If you know the cheat codes then you can beat it, and if you're just naturally talented then you can beat it too.
I try not to take 'relationships' with significant others too seriously since I have yet to come across a 'sure-deal' woman. I'm the kind of guy that likes committment and I'm pretty sure I wont find that type of girl anytime soon, and so far the S.O. thing will stay in 'game-mode' until I do stumble across that diamond hidden beneath all these shit riddled stones.
That said, here's how I play the game.
Rule number one: FUCK GIRLS, I don't need them.
"That's so harsh!" Yeah but that's life honey. People get fucked like the guy who posted above me, and so to keep from getting fucked you have to put some invisible walls up. No matter how nice I treat a girl, in the back of my mind I'm always saying "FUCK YOU BITCH" until she shows me that she's a real woman who is looking for something <i>more</i>.
After I have the right mindset I can go about learning 'tricks' and things. Fastseduction.com has a plethora of 'tricks' if I choose that route. They work too; I've tried 'em. The one main trick I know is use alot of kino (touch her) and captivate her with conversation. After the "hello's" and "what's your name's" it's all about touching and convo's. You can incorporate all that other nonsense as you see fit.
I think looks have very little to do with the equation. They do help, but they only (most of the time) get you in the front door. Looks wont get you any beans; that's where the 'tricks' and 'skills' come in.
For all of you fellers who refuse to 'change' even a little bit to get yourself some more womenz, well that's up to you. I just hope you do find 'that girl' eventually.
So, back to the original question..
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Why does looks have to be so important now a days?
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I don't think they are <i>that</i> important. As long as your well dressed, smell good, and you're groomed, I don't think you have to be a supermodel to get the girl. There's ALWAYS going to be someone better looking anyways so why worry about that. Just make sure you're well kept, and that takes care of the physical part (pretty much).
Personally though, I have the body of an egyptian god*, so if I chose to go around dressing like a hot-boy then I'd probably get in more front doors, but if I couldn't back up my looks with some game (yes, pun there too - see, cheat codes a.k.a. tricks) then I wont be able to seal the deal unless they're drunk and are only looking for a good thumpin
Also, there are exceptions to all this stuff. Alot of guys are just at the right place at the right time, or have 'middle-men/women' to hook them up with people.
*i kid... for the most part