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You are playing with FIRE Kurant. Some one is going to get hurt and more than likely it'll be either you or your wife or both of you. You have already started to develop feelings for this "friend". Just think back to your hormonal teen years. If you put 2 hormaonal teenagers together (guy & girl) long enough sooner or later something will happen. In all probability, she is confiding in you as a friend. She may even "trust" you and feel comfortable with you because you are married and so she doesn't feel threatened by you in that sense. But as you have said, you are starting to have feelings for her and this is also affecting your motive to be her friend.
Kurant, it seems to me like you are trying to justify some reasons to be "close" to this woman. What I or anyone else on this forum may share will not change what you are about to do, but just take some time a REALLY think about what you are doing. You are about to screw up 7 years of marriage.
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