I used to get so pissed off when I would get dumped for being a nice guy. It took a long time to figure out how to use it to my advantage, but I finally did a few years back. When I start seeing a new girl, I just treat her really well from the beginning; I never hit her, yell at her in a demeaning way, I'm not emotionally abusive, and I show her plenty of attention. If she eventually dumps me because I'm a "nice guy", then I just consider it the same as test driving a car at its limits; if you drive the hell out of a car on a test drive and it shows signs of bad quality, you just take it back and consider it a piece of shit that you won't waste your time with. The same works with women. If she breaks up with you because you're a kind and caring guy, then just be glad you didn't marry the crazy bitch and have kids with her before you found out how fucked in the head she was.
On the other hand, if you treat her incredibly well and she's appreciative of it, then you know you've found a winner.
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