When I had a 3-some with two men, it was fun and not weird or uncomfortable. In fact, I've never even worried about it being or getting weird. I think the weird-factor is greatly influenced by the maturity levels of those who are involved. These things aren't usually planned, so you just have to go with the flow. If things gather momentum, make sure everyone agrees on a safeword (like "ARMADILLO!") to stop. I'd have to say, though, that it's more fun FMF than it is with MFM. Doing it with both genders makes it unfamiliar and exciting territory for me.
<hr>
in response to a comment below this one, threesomes do not equal the end of a relationship. after my first threesome with boyfriend#1, the relationship lasted for another year and ended for other reasons (translation: he was an asshole).
__________________
=^-^= motdakasha =^-^=
Just Google It.
BA Psychology & Photography
(I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)
Last edited by motdakasha; 08-14-2003 at 11:37 PM..
|