In all honesty, I probably couldn't seduce so much as a house plant, but I had a friend who was willing to experiment. It didn't so much happen "suddenly" as it did through some planning and talking about what it would mean. Neither one of us was interested in pursuing a relationship beyond friendship with the other, with, ah...benefits. I think it worked out well for both of us, that we separated sex from love. It was a chance to...I'm not sure I want to say learn, because that sounds very cold, but experiment, explore, and learn. Like awanderingsoul, we realized that one experience and curiosity did not necessarily make us lesbians. I don't think I'm really interested in actively seducing another woman, but I don't think I'd turn down a good offer, either.
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Do I contradict myself?
Very well then I contradict myself,
I am large. I contain multitudes.
-Walt Whitman, Song of Myself
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