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Originally posted by yournamehere
We all have our "One that got away"
Welcome to the club.
I can't blame you for your feelings - they're natural. But don't count on her taking you back - after all, what you told her is basically this: "I need to find out if there are any better women than you out there - if I can't find any in a year or two, I'll get back to you, babe."
How would you feel if it were the other way around? Would you be a doormat and take her back?
Didn't think so.
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yournamehere said it EXACTLY right. And I'll second what he says and raise it several notches:
How are you going to feel as she starts to date other people as well, and realizes that there are men out there who won't set her by the wayside to run off and play "whatif"?
3.5 years out of the dating game huh? You've prolly forgotten how to do it... what makes you think you can get laid by anyone else?
[/devil's advocate mode off]
Seriously though, if your doubts about her are strong enough to talk about them, then you've done yourself and her a favor by ending the relationship. I'm sure you'll both find someone better.
Either that or you'll be 45 and alone wishing you hadn't looked for the greener grass.