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*schnoogles her Cedar*
You know, I don't think I ever told you this hon, but the husband (Xixox as he's known on here) and I spent the first 6 months of our relationship apart.
Again, like so many others, it was the internet that kept us close and made life easier.
Now, let me tell you something from the 20/20 hindsight perspective -- if it wasn't for that time apart, I don't think we would have as strong of a relationship as we do now. Why? because we were forced to communicate on everything.
Think about it -- how many people do you know are in relationships where they can't tell their partners the simplest of things? Think of the gift you've been given where life is forcing you to learn the most vital of skills needed to make a marriage work -- the ability to talk to your partner as a partner.
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"You spend twenty years learning the spell that makes nude virgins appear in your bedroom, and then you’re so poisoned by quicksilver fumes and half-blind from reading old grimoires that you can’t remember what happens next." (Terry Pratchett, The Colour Of Magic)
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