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I also met an amazing man online, in a video chat room. He was there the first night I began chatting and for some unknown reason I felt something different for him than I had for anyone else. It took us just a couple of weeks before we knew we were head over heels in love with each other. The fact that I was living in Canada and he was living in the US was a big problem. We didn't think there was any way our 'relationship' could go anywhere and we talked about just how amazing it would be to even meet each other.
That amazing man is now my husband and we have a 4 month old son together. I am living in the states with him and we have an incredible family. I have 2 children from my previous marriage and he has 1. We have an extremely busy household but I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. My immigration process is finally getting somewhere and 2 weeks ago I finally got my passport stamped as a "Conditional Permanent resident' of the US. We had the scare of our lives but it's all worked out.
The long distance part was something I'd never want to experience again. I agree with annie1 that the feelings when i got to see him at the airport each time were unbelievable, but I would have traded that in a heartbeat to be spending every night in his arms. I almost gave up so many times because I thought dealing with not having him at all had to be better than crying all the time because I needed to be with him. Silly logic I know and thank god I never gave up, not that he would have let me anyway lol.
Like jonsgirl I have to thank whoever invented cams, if it weren't for the cam I never would have met him, and it helped enormously in the sex dept while we were apart as well. I discovered masturbation, mutual masturbation, and the sheer joy of watching the man you love, knowing he's thinking of only you.
Netmeeting is the absolute best thing in the world for any couple in a LDR. We spent, literally, 16 hrs/day talking, typing, looking at each other...and some days longer. He even installed a camera at work so I could watch him while we typed to each other all day at work. He survived on 3-4 hrs/night sleep for months and months cause it was what we needed to get us through. Sounds like an exageration but unfor it's true...sad...but true lol.
btw...he is also a member of this board...his name is oscar0308
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