the pill is nearly foolproof if used properly. if her friend missed pills or was on the wrong dosage then THAT'S the reason she got pregnant. it wasn't a failure of the pill.
what's the pill's success ratio? like 98% or so? and let's say a condom's success (again, used properly) is 95%, that means using both is 99.9% effective. That's one in a thousand, and even though you think your girl is one in a million, you two aren't 1 in a thousand. you're one of the other 999 couples who don't get pregnant.
I'd talk to her about the proper use of birth control, get some facts and figures and just honestly talk about how you two can use birth control effectively. Make sure she's on the pill and she always takes it at the same time each day. Practice putting a condom on so that you both can do it. I'm sure her friend CLAIMS that they used their birth control properly. That's because no one wants to admit they screwed up.
Once you both know the proper methods for birth control then she will probably feel a lot better about sex.
is she this uptight about other things? if so, take a step back and maybe you and this girl aren't as compatible as you think.
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