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Originally posted by tset
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I feel like crap now because I think I made a big mistake in letting her go but then again, I think this is REALLY something that I need to clear my head of this stuff.
I realized something else the other day......any girl that start a relationship with from here on has GOT to be better than the girl I'm with because I wouldn't tolerate anything less. RIGHT? I guess the only problem with that mentality is that it might take me a long time to find that person. Oh well. I feel like total crap. Live and learn.
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Ofcourse every person is different and not everybody will be able to set aside their reservations.
Have you met any new girls yet?
one tip about the GOT to be better:
I think many people overlook the fact that it can take quite some time before you get something as good as the thing you had before- mainly because you've grown so close to the other person. New people are just that: 'new people'. There's no way you can have the same emotional intensity with someone you've just met.
But maybe the whole good times and meanlingless sex thing is just right for you!
I know I sound sarcastic, but I'm really being atleast half-serious. I can imagine what you did took some guts and it blew up in your face.
Hope you find peace of mind soon.
and I agree with angela146, the whole meant-to-be thing is a total myth. If something actually happens effortlessly, you got astronomically lucky.