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I'm slowly teaching my wife about those kinds of things, Angela. In some ways I'm still learning them myself. I slept around a bunch in my younger days, but it was always about the physical and not the mental. Now that I'm a little older and wiser, I have found the mental part of the act to be much more stimulating. For several years, my wife felt completely inadequate at sex and nothing I could say would convince her otherwise. What finally changed was letting her know that it was okay to be a bit selfish in bed. Once she started to get regular orgasms (and knew that I REALLY wanted to do that for her), it has really opened things up.
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