It is pretty common to want to see what is on the other side of the street, but in retrospect it hasn't been all that it was cracked up to me (yes, it is easy to say that having slept with around 30 women prior to meeting my wife). I dislike it when people think that you are really missing something which may mean that she isn't the right person. However life isn't always that simple and there are many alternative ways to live. I have always disliked labels as they box us in. For the longest time, I wanted to marry that woman who was experienced (but not too experienced). Basically the woman who was a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom. Instead I fell for a Catholic virgin who while showing flashes of sexual responsiveness before we were married was completely hung up on the subject. I was the first guy to touch her breasts, etc., and it was no fake. However what has happened is that my prim and proper little Catholic girl has turned into a girl that absolutely loves sex and with me. I completely trust her. If you have something good, don't turn it down just because you aren't sure. If it works, go for it. You only go around once, so enjoy it.
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