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Originally posted by tset
I see what you are saying Golden and that might've been true for me too. I just don't want to be 45 years old with regrets that I wasn't more wild (had more sex, dated more girls, etc.) when I was young.
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How would you like to be 45 and wishing that you'd married her instead of being a bit of an idiot? You can spin all the "regret" you like, but you've got to base what you
do on what you know
now.
Dating and fucking around are a means to an end. If you've already found The One for you, and you set her aside for one you don't even know yet, you're forgetting the "bird in the hand vs two in the bush" thing.
Oh, and I wouldn't consider your situation even slightly unusual, for someone who is young and who got lucky. Better to commit and regret later than to never commit and regret later, I say. At least you'll have
some good times rather than none.