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Originally posted by cheerios
if my boyfriend or one of HIS friends were to be hurt by my keeping this secret, I wouldn't. i don't like to spread gossip, but no one can expect me to betray him who i trust the most. If it has nothing to do with him, why bother sharing, unless it's something I'm worried about in which case i'll probably use him as a sounding board with the understanding that he "hasn't heard" anything i tell him.
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You raise a good point: I don't tell my husband *everything* (guys are incapable of listing to *everything*) but I reserve the right to. If it's important and bothering me, I would have a hard time not leaning on him, plus the notion of not being able to tell him something would feel like a barrier.