I'm in a situation like that right now. I won't be able to see my husband until January. This is the longest I've ever been away from him and I miss him so much. I depend on him for everything and it's hard having to go without him.
The thing that helps the most is the internet. I can talk to him for a couple of hours every day. I think my being gone puts some strain on our relationship (but more because of past issues), but nothing that seriously hurts us. Our sex life is still pretty good. Thank god for digital cameras! I think I've had more...um...fun by myself lately than in the last month we were together. And I know when I get back it's going to be amazing. And as for future plans; it's only really put one life decision on hold for me. And the expeince I'm having now will effect my feelings on that so I might not know until I get back, anyway.
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Someday, someone will best me.
But it won't be today, and it won't be you.
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