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Old 08-12-2003, 08:49 PM   #9 (permalink)
Gorgo
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Location: Tampa Bay, Florida
weird? not really

tset, lets review the facts.

Girlfriend of 3.5 years. Had alot of sex with her I am guessing.
Fact is: You will actually have more sex with a single girlfriend than playing the field. Girls tend to be more active with one guy because they are comfortable with you.

There will be the thrill of new girl sex, but after a couple times, guess what? The thrill is gone because you recognize the girls face before she gets her clothes off. Time to move on then, eh?

If you are wondering about variety, having sex with a girl is about the same with each one. I've been with a few and it was all good. But the best sex is that which you have with someone you love, its more intimate and exciting, for me anyway.

If your girlfriend is the "right" girl for you, she will be willing to try some new and exciting things with you. Like the wild sex you are afraid you are missing out on. Just approach her with your interests and see how far she's willing to go? You may be surprised.

So that covers your concerns on having "more" sex and dating "more" or "wilder" girls.

Bottom line, you need to clear your head, go off somewhere by yourself and think this over. And ask yourself, is it the desire for a new girl or the fear of intimacy with your girlfriend?

PS. This isn't a "weird" relationship situation. It happens with every couple at some point. Its where you decide if you truly "love" that person and want them in your life forever.

Whats worse is a 45 year old guy who realizes he could have been getting laid for the last 20 years by a girl who loves him, but he got cold feet and she got away . . .
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