Well ok then. I suck for advice.
My last relationship was with a man who lived 200 miles away (damned far enough if you ask me) and it was stressful enough and we weren't even married (that just adds more stress). But, we tried to put that all aside when we actually did see each other.
Eventually he got a job 4 hours more away and then, well I moved 1500 miles away from where HE was so we just kinda ended it. I really wish I hadn't said I couldn't do long-distance, but at this point in my life, I just can't.
However, I comfort myself knowing that since he's a pilot, he flies into town periodically.
that obviously (at least I don't think) doesn't apply to your situation, but even the thought of seeing him cheers me up instantly. I'd say, just think of all the good memories you have and the memories you will make in the future. Whennever you get down, remember, he's only a phone call away. Only one memory away.
Also, keep in mind that only seeing each other once a month is a lot more than some couples do and that you should definately (as I'm sure you do) completely cherish those times together!!
Remember that cheesy saying "abscene only makes the heart grow fonder"? Yeah. It's true
Hang in there!!