Commuter marriages/LDRs
I'm in one. I love Mr. Cedar with all my heart, but it's not fun. I am lucky enough to be married to a wonderful man who supports me in my career, but because he's in school in a city where I couldn't find a job, I had to move hundreds of miles away.
Is anyone else here in this situation? If so, how does it affect your relationship? Your sex life? Has it put any kind of major life plans on hold?
How do you meet up with your husband/S.O.? Do you enjoy the time you spend with each other, or does it sometimes feel like just one more stress? Got any advice? It looks like Mr. Cedar and I will be apart for at least the next year and a half, and we've been living apart for six months.
__________________
Do I contradict myself?
Very well then I contradict myself,
I am large. I contain multitudes.
-Walt Whitman, Song of Myself
|