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Old 08-11-2003, 04:16 PM   #19 (permalink)
anti fishstick
Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash
 
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Originally posted by johnnymysto
I'm so glad to hear stormberlin and anti fishstick admit what I've thought for years. But that still doesn't answer replet2's question - why stay with the hunky jerks instead of taking a chance with the no-so-hunky charmers?
well it does answer it. that's the thing.. when you're caught in a relationship with a hot jerk and you have NO self-worth, you're going to cling on to it anyway. it's all you have, yes? females base themselves on external things too much...the relationships around them. i know it is my weakness. i also start centering my life around the other person instead of myself. you begin to lose yourself, etc. it's hard to get out of that...
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