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I will tell you just a piece of a story that happened to my coworker. Her daughter who was 15 at the time, was dating an older man somewhere around 19-20. They did have sex where both parties consented but because of her age, her mother has taken the guy to court on rape charges. The case went through and the verdict found the guy guilty. He now has to serve time in jail for many many years.
Surely you don't want to go to jail. Surely her parents aren't really tyrants, they are just trying to protect their daughter. If her parents hated you that much they wouldn't have told you to wait awhile if she's worth it. They could have done something worse to you, such as what my coworker did to the guy that was with her daughter.
If you two honestly and truly love each other a couple years will pass quickly and by the end of the time she will be old enough to make her own choices without her parents influence. Absence sometimes does make the heart grow fonder.
Another thing you could try, if you haven't already, is speak to her parents directly about your intentions with their daughter. Respect their decision and abide by what they say. Sneaking around and risking jail time may seperate you from her longer.
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