So, breasts. Like most guys (and some girls), I am a fan. No suprise there. However, last night a friend of mine (who happened to be the only girl in the sausage fest that are the parties of my apartment) posed several questions to figure out how important breasts are on a girl, and what exactly constitutes a nice rack. After several minutes of boob-related conversation, I realized that all of my answers to her questions were cop-outs. For example:
Her: Suppose there are two girls, both very attractive, one with boobs on the small side, one on the large side, who would you rather get with?
Me: The girl with the more attractive personality.
The answer certainly wasn't a lie, but it also completely failed to answer her question. This bothers me a bit because I would much rather give an honest opinion and do so in a straightforward manner. The only problem is I simply didn't have an answer for her.
So I've done a lot of soul searching, thought of girls I have fancied in the past, went through a mental checklist of celebrities which I find particularly attractive, and even browsed a myriad of porn sites and watched several pornographic video clips (talk about dedication!). To my dismay, I did not find a clear connection between the size of a girl's breasts and how attractive she is to me.
But this doesn't make sense; I can be just as superficial as any other guy. I see boobs and I immediately know how attracted I am to them. I can go on
www.ratemyrack.com and let the world know precisely, on a scale from 1 to 10, just how attractive I find them. So what else is there that differentiates boob from boob? The nipples? Well yes, but I can tell whether I like a girl's breasts when she's wearing clothes. Cleavage? Well, I am an admirer of this phenomenon, and my mind will invariably go in the gutter upon seeing it, but cleavage has more to do with the type of bra or dress the girl is wearing.
So, there you have it, my failed thought process on this issue. Just a bunch of dead ends, but as I was preparing to give up and not even attempt suitable answer to the question, a lightbulb appeared over my head and made a dinging noise (or it would have if I were in a cartoon). Here goes...
I like playing with boobs. They're squishy. Their appearance has little to no connection with this, nor with the joy that they can bring. And now that I think about it, I'm only mildly attracted to their form. Yet, at the same time, seeing a pair of breasts causes all sorts of hormones to fire off in my system telling me "it would be fun to play with those." Similarly, whenever I think of what I find physically attractive about a girl, I will invariably think about their lips, because that's really where it all starts (and sometimes ends).
To the point: it's not the boobs that are attractive about a girl, it's the girl, the whole picture. However, regardless of size, when thinking about a particularly attractive girl, the focus will shift to her breasts almost immediately because they are reminiscent of an enjoyable experience, and they're also easily visible.