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Originally posted by curveedv8
My own personally opinion is that the closer and more intimate the relationship the less of a need for safewords there is. I know a couple of people in relationships like that where they don't have a safeword but the dominant knows the submissive *very* well and the sub trusts the dom not to harm them. It takes while to build up that kind of trust though.
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Having a safe word is like having a fire extinguisher. It's useful even if it's just gathering dust.
Hubby and I haven't used our safephrase in years, for exactly the reasons you mention. However, just knowing that it's there allows us to go farther out on the edges.