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angela146 · 08-09-2003, 10:13 PM

I have to be missing something. You are *complaining* that you can *only* last *20 minutes* of solid fucking inside your girlfriend. You feel you should be able to last 30 minutes.

Are you human?

Are you hard the whole time or do you get soft sometimes while you are inside her? Are you thrusting constantly or sometimes slowly stroking or sometimes just staying still inside her? What about circumference? How big around are you? How "tight" is it inside her? How often do you masturbate and/or have sex other ways?

Let me put this in perspective: I've been getting it from the same guy for almost 10 years. We're about 8-10 years older than you are and men tend to get better at lasting longer the older they get. If I had to guess, I would say that we have had intercourse more than 1,000 times.

Today, if he works hard at it and prepares ahead of time, he can last a good fifteen minutes without coming... but... that is on rare occasions, maybe every couple of months or so if we're lucky. In order to do that, he has to masturbate an hour or two ahead of time and time it just right so that he is just out of his refractory period.

Duration, sir, is not the problem. As far as that goes, twenty minutes of consistant fucking on a regular basis is enough to get you a marble statue on Mt. Olympus.

Now, having said that, here's the rub (pun intended). Most young women do not get off from intercourse alone, even if you last an hour. Most of us need clitoral stimulation until we learn how to get off from "G Spot" stimulation.

My suggestions:

1. Learn how to get her off in ways other than fucking. Use your mouth, fingers etc. on the outside, around her clitoris.

2. Once you know how to do this and do it well, try getting her "almost" ready and then start with intercourse.

3. When you are inside her, start by doing only shallow strokes. The head of your penis should spend most of its time doing short strokes about an inch or two inside her vagina. If it works, it will frustrate the hell out of her. That's what you want. Only give her occasional long, deep strokes at first until she is "really" turned on.

With your stamina, you may be able to get her off by using the shallow stroking technique. If so, once she starts coming, it's your turn. Now you can take long strokes and go all the way inside. It would be even better if you mixed them (shallow, shallow, deep, shallow, shallow, deep etc.).

Finally, if you get her to really enjoy it and come hard while you are inside her, my guess is that her orgasm will trigger yours.

If you try this, let me know how it works.

08-09-2003, 10:13 PM	#15 (permalink)
angela146 Loser Location: Somewhere near Hubby	I have to be missing something. You are complaining that you can only last 20 minutes of solid fucking inside your girlfriend. You feel you should be able to last 30 minutes. Are you human? Are you hard the whole time or do you get soft sometimes while you are inside her? Are you thrusting constantly or sometimes slowly stroking or sometimes just staying still inside her? What about circumference? How big around are you? How "tight" is it inside her? How often do you masturbate and/or have sex other ways? Let me put this in perspective: I've been getting it from the same guy for almost 10 years. We're about 8-10 years older than you are and men tend to get better at lasting longer the older they get. If I had to guess, I would say that we have had intercourse more than 1,000 times. Today, if he works hard at it and prepares ahead of time, he can last a good fifteen minutes without coming... but... that is on rare occasions, maybe every couple of months or so if we're lucky. In order to do that, he has to masturbate an hour or two ahead of time and time it just right so that he is just out of his refractory period. Duration, sir, is not the problem. As far as that goes, twenty minutes of consistant fucking on a regular basis is enough to get you a marble statue on Mt. Olympus. Now, having said that, here's the rub (pun intended). Most young women do not get off from intercourse alone, even if you last an hour. Most of us need clitoral stimulation until we learn how to get off from "G Spot" stimulation. My suggestions: 1. Learn how to get her off in ways other than fucking. Use your mouth, fingers etc. on the outside, around her clitoris. 2. Once you know how to do this and do it well, try getting her "almost" ready and then start with intercourse. 3. When you are inside her, start by doing only shallow strokes. The head of your penis should spend most of its time doing short strokes about an inch or two inside her vagina. If it works, it will frustrate the hell out of her. That's what you want. Only give her occasional long, deep strokes at first until she is "really" turned on. With your stamina, you may be able to get her off by using the shallow stroking technique. If so, once she starts coming, it's your turn. Now you can take long strokes and go all the way inside. It would be even better if you mixed them (shallow, shallow, deep, shallow, shallow, deep etc.). Finally, if you get her to really enjoy it and come hard while you are inside her, my guess is that her orgasm will trigger yours. If you try this, let me know how it works. Last edited by angela146; 08-09-2003 at 10:16 PM..