i have issues with this new trend in style/fashion. i do -NOT- like feeling as if i'm dressing for the male population. i would go for comfort over style any day. i'm not here to "impress" anyone. and i dont like feeling objectified when wearing what men would want me to wear.. so.. i don't overdue the sexy look.. i'm sure a lot of women dress sexier/look sexier than i do... especially at concerts where guys are constantly checking out all the 'hot girls' and i don't feel like one of them and get almost...jealous? that feeling of competition? i'm not even that competitive...
heh. but cheerios DOES have a good point as to why girls do this. and.. it does have good benefits. somedays, i -do- pay more attention to my looks and feel better about myself when i get the attention for it. and like i said... girls are in competition amongst themselves.
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