ok, I must just be lucky, but not only does my wife trust me and feels VERY secure in our relationship, but she will point out hot women to me. She loves just going to the mall and people watching. She actually will point out hot guys to me. I have a wandering eye myself, but we both know that we are just looking, we would never stray and we are comfortable with our relationship. We are also extremely trustworthy and have never given each other a reason to not trust each other.
I think females and males that get jealous about a guy or girl that looks at others is just too uptight and needs to loosen up a bit. There are 2 reason why someone would get upset or see their SO looking at others as a threat. Either the person is insecure, or they lack trust in the relationship.
My advise, loosen up and join in the fun. If you are a woman with a man that has a wandering eye, start pointing out hot women and join in the fun, or start pointing out hot guys, and either your SO will join in that fun, or they will start becoming more concious of their own wandering eye and knock it off for fear that you might start looking at other guys again.
Anways, that is my 2 cents...
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